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Sexism and Female Playwrights

Today's New York Times describes a fascinating trio of studies -- by a clearly brilliant undergraduate named Emily Glassberg Sands (her research is a lot better than most doctoral dissertations) -- that reveals some sexism against female playwrights. Check out the article Rethinking Gender Bias in the Theater. The first study shows that the main reason that fewer plays written by women are produced is because they write fewer plays than men.  The third study shows that plays that do get produced that are written by women make more money than those written by men -- on average, they were 18% more profitable -- the implication being that standards are higher for female than male playwrights.  But the second study is really fascinating, as it revealed clear sexism -- by WOMEN, but not men.  I quote the article:

'For the second study, Ms. Sands sent identical scripts to artistic directors and literary managers around the country. The only difference was that half named a man as the writer (for example, Michael Walker), while half named a woman (i.e., Mary Walker). It turned out that Mary’s scripts received significantly worse ratings in terms of quality, economic prospects and audience response than Michael’s. The biggest surprise? “These results are driven exclusively by the responses of female artistic directors and literary managers,” Ms. Sands said.'

If both men and women were biased against women, as there are numerous studies that show that negative stereotypes against women, minorities, and are often held just as strongly by members of those groups as outsiders -- notably by John Jost at NYU.  I also want to emphasize that plenty of other research documents gender bias by men against women. Just look at the top management teams and boards of Fortune 500 firms -- that is mostly a story of men bringing in people who look and act like their favorite person on the planet: Themselves! Or as Harvard's Rosabeth Moss Kanter called this process, "Homosocial Reproduction."

Nonetheless, this is pretty compelling evidence of unabashed sexism by women against themselves? Do you believe this is true in other settings?  If so, why would this happen?  

P.S. You can find many of John' Jost's articles at his website, where he offers free downloads. And you might also check out his most controversial  research on "Why are conservatives happier than liberals?"

 

New York Times, I Hate People, Censorship, and Headphones as Protective Devices

21career-190 This morning's Sunday New York Times has a well-researched piece by Phyllis Korkki in her Career Couch column called "I Find You Annoying, But I Can Cope." It starts out with a quote from Jonathan Littman about the implications of the ideas in I Hate People for dealing people who bug you at work (see their post), and travels through a lot different methods for coping with the problem from several other researchers and the like.  I was quoted in the article several times, emphasizing some of my favorite themes from The No Asshole Rule including the virtues of learning indifference and emotional detachment to deal with people who bug you, especially when you can't make an immediate escape -- to not let them touch your soul as I say so often.

 Alas, very early in my conversations with Phyllis she informed that, as had happened with The New York Times from the outset, they wouldn't publish the name of my book, even though it is a bestseller, the ideas are used in many companies, it was on their bestseller list (albeit as The No ******* Rule), and they accepted a lot of money from my publisher to print large ads that mocked them for not printing the title.  In fact, they weren't even willing to indicate that I was an author of a book on the subject in the article.  I find the whole thing silly but made clear to Phyllis that I understood Times policy and we should go ahead with the interviews, and I think she did a great job of capturing all sorts of ways of coping with challenge of working with people who drive you crazy.  This censorship thing comes with the territory, and as I wrote here and here at Huffington awhile back, is something I've tried to have fun with -- but I remain amazed by who is offended and who is not by the title -- it was fine for a bible studies class, the Wall Street Journal, and Fortune, but not for The New York Times!

I also wanted to dig into my comment in the article about the virtues of using headphones when you are in a loud office environment that makes it hard to concentrate (The above drawing takes this to its logical conclusion, because as I mentioned to her and Jonathan did too, I described how conflicts sometimes erupt in workplaces because other eat food that smells bad to their colleagues).  When I talked to Phyllis, I mentioned that a good pair of noise-canceling headphones had prov en essential to my son for shutting-out his loud college roommate last year.  In addition, it reminded me of 1995 study (here is the reference and abstract)by Greg Oldham and his colleagues, an experiment conducted in an organization, where they gave a random sample of employees the opportunity to listen to headphones while they worked (people who held diverse jobs in retail organization) and then tracked their tracked their reactions for four weeks, and compared them to people in a control condition who weren't offered the chance to use headphones.  They found employees who used headphones "exhibited significant improvements in performance, turnover intentions, organization satisfaction, mood states, and other responses."  They also found that people in the most boring and simple jobs had the most positive reactions to wearing the headphones... so there is some decent, if not definitive, evidence to support the use of headphones.

The HateMobile

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The authors of I Hate People, Jonathan and Marc, customized their rental car so it was a rolling advertisement for their book. A brilliant move I think,  although perhaps a bit dangerous in New York City. Check out their post, which also describes the excitement they generated  handing out promotional swag in Times Square.  These guys are getting piles of attention in the main stream media, CNN,Wall Street Journal, and New York Times. So I have to hand it to them because they are doing the guerrilla marketing thing too.

The No Asshole Rule at Shakespeare Miami

I still get perhaps 20 emails a week from people about the challenges and triumphs of dealing with workplace assholes. I try to respond to each, but don’t print most of them because I know that readers of this blog aren’t interested in reading about all assholes all the time, and I would be bored to tears too if that was all I ever wrote about.  But every now and then I get a note that is just wonderful and feel compelled to share it.  Today, I got one of my favorite notes ever, from Colleen Stovall, who is the Producing Artistic Director at Shakespeare Miami – which enforces the no asshole rule.  I usually don’t print emails verbatim, but Colleen’s note is so good that I don’t want to deprive you of any of it.  Here it is:

Dear Dr. Sutton:

I have worked with attorneys in the past and witnessed firsthand what unchecked aggression and bad behavior can do to morale and performance. Many years ago I was brought in to cover maternity leave for a legal secretary who worked for a "screamer". I was in despair and ready to quit until I realized that I had nothing to lose. I walked into his office and calmly told the screamer that the first time he raised his voice to me I would erase his hard drive. I thought I would be fired on the spot, but strangely, he agreed. From then on all it took was a raised eyebrow. Life at work became much better for both of us.

Behavior in the theater can easily become very destructive. Directors routinely turn a blind eye to bad behavior in the name of nurturing or retaining top talent. Some talented actors think that to be a "real" leading actor, they need to behave like jerks. This attitude can become destructive and quickly poison the morale of an entire cast. Anyone applying for a position with Shakespeare Miami is not only told about our "No Assholes" rule, they are required to sign an agreement to abide by it. It is posted on our website: www.shakespearemiami.com

What We're Looking For in Actors Ensemble (the French word for "together")

We choose to work with talented, entertainers who are NICE people who get along with fellow actors and crew.  We want people who make it a pleasure for a director to have you on their stage. We are looking for parts of a whole, people who can function well as a team. Following the advice of the Harvard Review of New Management Techniques', we are committed to the ideas in the award winning book by Bob Sutton "The No Assholes Rule". In order to create a creative, healthy work environment where talent is recognized, young people are mentored and actors can feel challenged to learn and to polish their craft, we have instituted an active, committed and strongly enforced "No Assholes" rule in our company. For more information on this management technique, to buy his award winning book or to take the test to see if you qualify....see Bob's webpage: www.bobsutton.typepad.com

I just wanted you to know that it really works. Thanks so much.

Sincerely,

Colleen Stovall
Producing Artistic Director
Shakespeare Miami

Great Review for "I Hate People" In Today's Wall Street Journal

At breakfast this morning, my wife pointed out that I Hate People (which I endorsed and is a book I love) got a long and very positive review in today's Wall Street Journal.   The reviewer did a bit of nit-picking, but he clearly is a big fan of the book.  Predicting which books will be best-sellers and which will not is impossible, but my first reaction to reading this book, which persists, is that if any book in the current market deserves to be one, this is it, because business books that are both fun and useful are as rare as hen's teeth. Check out the review here, and here is a taste.

Refreshingly, the authors don't pretend to have all the answers. If the workplace career-killer happens to be your boss, they admit, sometimes the best you can do is hang in there and hope that he or she self-destructs. (And don't expect any help from HR.)

"I Hate People" is at its best with specifics like the best length of time for a meeting (half an hour, and no laptops or cellphones allowed) and the ideal size of a project team (three to five people). For those who dread being trapped into cellphone chit-chat with a windbag colleague, there is a devilishly clever online service called Slydial, which sends your call directly to voicemail without running the risk of a time- and spirit-sapping conversation.

"I Hate People" is a bracing antidote to the management bromide that "there is no 'i' in 'team.' " True enough, Messrs. Hershon and Littman would say -- but if you move things around a bit, there is a "me."

Suggested Names for the Selfish Superstar Inventory

Last week, I did a posting about the Selfish Superstar Inventory that I am developing for a current writing project, and I asked people to suggest names and items for this non-scientific scale. I got quite a few suggestions via email and in comments on the post. I think I have dug them all up.  Here they are:


CRASS -- Critical Ranking Analysis of Selfish Superstars

EGOS -- Evaluation Gauge for Overbearing Superstars

BRATS -- Basic Ranking of Asshole Tendency of Superstars

BRASS -- Basic Ranking Assessment of Selfish Superstars

MESS -- Measurement Exam for Selfish Superstars

S.H.I.T. --   Superstar Hubris Indicator Tool (Or Selfish Human in need of Training)

WIIFM -- What's In It For Me

Pretty Things for Pretty People

I.A.M. -- It's all about me

SPARSE -Superstar Primadonna Asshole Rating Self Exam

What is your favorite? Also, let me know if you have any other ideas for titles or items on the scale. 

Thanks,

Bob

The Asshole and Umpire

We are are in the middle of baseball season here in the United States, and as in any sport where people succeed and fail in public and there is performance pressure, the situation is ripe to turn even mild-mannered people into temporary assholes, and of course, to unleash the full force of certified assholes.  On that point, I got an instructive and entertaining email from Dave Coates, a senior HR manager and a guy who has served as an umpire now and then.  Here is his story:

A few years ago I was an umpire for a local softball organization.  During the third inning in one game I blew a call at second base.  The coach for the negatively impacted team immediately got in my face and spontaneously hit a full-blown asshole rage.  I called timeout and sent both teams to their respective dugouts and asked the coach to join me in centerfield.  His rage continued until I told him to shut-up or the game was over.  Once I had quiet, I told the coach that he was right, I had blown the call and I was not going to reverse it.  However, my mistake did not cost his team any runs and earlier in the game his shortstop had made two fielding errors that has cost his team three runs.  I now want to know why is it okay for him to get in my face and cuss me out based on my error, but he never said a word to his shortstop when the errors had cost his team runs.  The coach was speechless.  I then told him he had two choices: 1) Shut the hell up and play the game with no further incident, or 2) If the yelling at the umpire continued I would forfeit the game to other team taking his team out of contention for the league championship.  Needless, to say the game was finished without further incident.  To this day, the coach is still an asshole.


One of the interesting things about this story is that Dave used the "Dirty Harry" method of conflict resolution -- exercising the full powers of his position (I guess Dirty Harry went beyond the rules a lot, but Dave was fully in his rights).  I believe that, when you have the power, and people are acting like flaming assholes, it is fully justified.  Unfortunately, most of us don't have such power to deal with the assholes in our lives and must resort to more subtle methods.

Dave, thanks for the story!

The Selfish Superstar Inventory: I'd Love Your Ideas

I am working on a little quiz based on something that Jeff Pfeffer and I have been thinking about since we wrote The Knowing-Doing Gap a decade ago, that continues in The No Asshole Rule, and I am thinking about again right now for my current work on great bosses.  We've thought a lot about the problem of destructive internal competition,and one of the little revelations we've had over the last few years is that one of the best diagnostic questions for determining if a boss or organization is fueling cooperation and information sharing-- or stomping it out -- is "who they are the superstars here?"  Bosses who reward solo superstars who stomp on others, stab them in the back, and steal their ideas are -- whether they want to or not -- breeding people and building a culture that anoints greedy and selfish superstars.

In contrast, bosses who anoint people as superstars only when they do stellar solo work AND when they help others succeed too, are creating the right kinds of stars.  I have written a lot over the years about different reward systems.  Hard Facts reviews pretty compelling evidence that organizations that emphasize the differences between the very best versus the "merely" competent and reliable employees may do a better job of holding on to the stars. But they often undermine overall team and organizational performance.   Nonetheless, I have been fascinated to learn in recent years that, although there are huge differences among the compensation systems at places like IDEO, McKinsey, GE, and Procter & Gamble, all are similar in that -- to be treated as a star -- you need to help others succeed, not just do great individual work.

Along these lines,I am trying to come-up with a fun and instructive way to show the damage that selfish superstars do (for a current project).  I am trying to come up with something as fun and useful as the ARSE (Asshole Self-Assessment Rating Exam), which is closing in on 200,000 completions.  The working title is the SSI (Selfish Superstar Inventory), and I am looking to generate about 20 diverse --  including humorous -- items.  This post is a plea for help.  In particular:

1. If you have a better title, I would love to hear it. The SSI doesn't quite sing like ARSE.

2.  I'd love suggestions for items on the quiz.  To give you a sense of the kind of thing I am experimenting with:

People we hire:

Love to brag about their accomplishments.

Say “we” but think “me.”

See their peers as competitors, even “the enemy.”

People who get ahead here:

Stomp on colleagues on the way to the top

Are always loved by their superiors, but often despised by their peers and subordinates

Ask for help, but never seem to give it

Don’t need to play well with others.

Constantly push for more goodies for themselves, but never go to bat for colleagues.

Note I am in the early stages of this project, so please don't hesitate to suggest a different structure and, in the spirit of brainstorming, go for wild ideas.  I think I am making things too tame thus far. Thanks! I am looking forward to your ideas

Layoffs: One Deep Cut Versus Lots of Little Cuts

There is a good conversation about the challenges of managing during tough times over at McKinsey.com where people are discussing the video, Good Boss, Bad Times, which is based on my current HBR article. There is an interesting and insightful comment by Wendy (and quite a few others too, I especially like the one by Alan Himmer) about the nuances of leading during tough times.  As I look at the comments, however, I realize that although videos are wonderful, they can't quite contain the nuances of an article.  And, in fact, Wendy makes an excellent point that, although I don't touch on it in the video, is something that comes up in the article, and is something I've been painfully aware of since doing a case of the collapse of Atari over 20 years.  As Wendy put it, 'try to make budgetary cuts in one fell swoop—it is better to cut too deep than to go back to the troops with more bad news. Incremental cuts only destroy employee confidence and leave them “stuck” with confusion and resentment.'

Wendy's advice dovetails with the argument in my article in that, to manage well during tough times, a good boss gives people as much predictability as possible -- and especially does everything he or she can to make clear when people are "safe" versus have reason to worry.  One of the worst things a boss or company can do is to make constant cuts at seemingly random intervals, as it causes people to live in a constant state of fear as they wait for the other shoe to fall.  As Wendy suggests, although a single deep cut is hell, it is a better alternative than wave after wave of smaller cuts.  Of course, things these days are unpredictable enough that what may seem like a deep and adequate cut today may later turn out to be inadequate,doing fewer and deeper cuts to the extent possible is a more effective strategy in the long-run.

Pink Slip: Maureen Rogers' Great Blog

Right after The No Asshole Rule was published, I wrote a bit about Maureen Rogers' blog Pink Slip and she wrote about the book.  But I had not visited much recently until the other day.  I not only was reminded was reminded of her sharp wit and delightful writing style, I realized that her blog had got even better over the last year or two. I was just delighted by her post Throwing at the Batter about workplace "situations that should result in a return bean-ball, a suspension, or a good old-fashioned bench clearing brawl - but never do" such as throwing team members under the bus and the vile practice of unnecessary fire drills. Maureen blogs mostly about workplace issues, but somehow ties it to everything from Grapenuts to When Hockey Moms Go Bad.

Maureen has a strong and original voice, a sense of fun, and makes creative connections among seemingly unrelated ideas -- but after you listen to her, it all makes good sense.  Maureen, I am sorry to have been away so long, but I will be back as a regular.  

Don't Let Them Touch Your Soul

In The No Asshole Rule, and in my asshole management tips, I talk about all sorts of different ways to engage with and undermine assholes, everything from direct confrontation to building coalition against them, to embarrassing them.  But I also point out that learning the art of indifference and emotional detachment, to not let them tough your soul, is at times the best thing you can do to protect yourself.  I mostly have recommended this strategy for people trapped with assholes who, at least for now, they can't escape.  But I was fascinated by a story in today's Wall Street Journal called "Are Misbehavin" about all the awful rude things that theater goers do these days -- not because they do so many rude things, but because of the way that one performer dealt with a remarkably rude audience member:

During a Saturday matinee of the Holocaust drama "Irena's Vow," a man walked in late and called up to actress Tovah Feldshuh to halt her monologue until he got settled. "He shouted, 'Can you please wait a second?' and then continued on toward his seat," recalls Nick Ahlers, a science teacher from Newark, N.J., who was in the audience. He says the actress complied.

Ms. Feldshuh says she typically pauses when she's interrupted. She doesn't recall the incident, which she says may be evidence of the Zen attitude she's cultivated onstage. "I have no negative energy about it to even remember," she says.

I am in awe of Ms. Feldhush's ability to not let such awful behavior touch her soul, to protect her mental health and ability to perform without getting rattled.  Her comment about not having the negative energy to even remember it is just lovely, and to me, a sign of great focus and mental health -- indeed, as I've discussed here before, people who ruminate over slights and remain bitter (compared to those who forgive others) generally suffer better mental health. 

Yet, part of me wonders if a better strategy is still to fight back, to not let those assholes get away with their dirty work, as in this example from the story:

Earlier this year, Patti LuPone lit up gossip blogs when she broke character in "Gypsy" to scream at an audience member taking pictures. Ms. LuPone says her frustration boiled over. "I had just had 10 months of pointing out to ushers texting, pointing out to ushers videoing, pointing out to ushers somebody on a phone," she says. "I just freaked."

I wonder what thoughts people have about when it is best to "go Zen" versus fighting back, and if there is a constructive middle ground (perhaps going Zen during the rudeness, but then having a system where the asshole is not allowed to buy a ticket again, much like the "blacklist" that some major airlines use to ban asshole passengers). 

P.S. Also check out this story on LA Theatre Etiquette -- good fun.

Sutton's Law, Orginality, and Wisdom

I got a note from a friend who was concerned that he had given a talk where he gave me credit for the term "attitude of wisdom," but when a summary was published, it was presented as his idea. It is great to have friends who give you credit for ideas and, as I think is evident in this blog, I try to take great care to describe the sources of my ideas (not only to give people credit, but also because readers may want to dig in deeper and may also disagree with my interpretation).  But my friend's note reminded me of something that I've thought a lot about over my earlier career as a pure academic and more recently as someone who tries to bridge the worlds of research and practice -- the tensions and pitfalls around giving other people credit and claiming that one has an original idea.

On the one hand, as my friend was so careful to do, I think it is important to try to acknowledge where your ideas come from -- for reasons already enumerated here, to give credit, because people may want to learn more, and because they may want to challenge your interpretation.  I also think it is important to acknowledge others because it reflects how the process of developing academic and applied ideas in the behavioral sciences operates: There are few if any new ideas, and creativity happens largely through moving old ideas from where they are known to where they are unknown and blending them in new ways (See Andy Hargadon's book to learn more).  So most claims -- by academics or gurus -- that they have developed entirely new ideas are suspect, and as James March once told, me, most claims originality reflect arrogance, ignorance, or both.  I got sufficiently tired of all the false claims of originality -- especially among so-called  management gurus -- that (both here and in Hard Facts) I once proposed "Sutton's Law" after the now defunct Business 2.0 was kind enough to call me management guru:

"If you think that you have a new idea, you are wrong.  Someone probably already had it.  This idea isn’t original either; I stole it from someone else."

On the other hand, trying to figure where an idea came from -- when it was first developed and who developed it -- is often an impossible task.  The best (and most enjoyable) example of this challenge is seen in the lovely old book called On the Shoulders of Giants, where sociologist Robert Merton tried to trace the origins of the phrase " "If I have seen farther, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants." This is often attributed to Newton, but as Merton shows on his amusing and impressive scholarly journey, nailing down the origins of an idea is often impossible and (following March's comment and Sutton's Law) the only thing that is usually safe to assume is that if someone claims they invented an idea out of whole cloth, they are suffering from arrogance, ignorance, or both. 

So to return to my friend's concern about the phrase "The Attitude of Wisdom," I think I first saw it used by Karl Weick, who attributed a psychologist named John Meacham, who credited (among others) psychologist Erik Erikson and "Socrates, as expressed by Plato."  And on and on it goes. So I don't know where it came from, but I do know it wasn't my idea.

I am left with two practical lessons. First, trying to figure out the sources of an idea and taking care to give others credit for ideas leads you to think about an idea more deeply and protects you from arrogance (or being seen as arrogant) even if you may never find the real source. Second,  when it comes to the every day challenges of management, and life in general, perhaps the most important thing is to follow (Jeffrey) Pfeffer's Law:

"Instead of being interested in what is NEW, we ought to be interested in what is TRUE."

As usual, Jeff cuts to the heart of the matter.

Apes, Humans, and The No Asshole Rule

The discussion of baboons in Harvard Business Review, as well as here and at the HBR site, reminded me of some intriguing work by anthropologist Christopher Boehm about whether humans (and other apes) are "prone to dominate or live harmoniously with each other."  The puzzle that Boehm tried to untangle was why, given that chimps, gorillas, and Bonobos (with which we share over 98% of the same genes) are so distinctly hierarchical and dominated by alpha males; yet studies of human hunter-gathers show that they are so distinctly egalitarian. Boehm studied 50 small, non-literate cultures to see how egalitarian they were, and why. He found that they were quite deliberately egalitarian- - and believed so strongly in maintaining political parity among adults, that males who turned into selfish bullies or who just tried to boss around everyone too much we were treated as "moral deviants."  Their peers responded aggressively by shaming, ostracizing, and ejecting them from the group. 

Boehm's interpretation of this intolerance for bullying and self-aggrandizement is fascinating, both in terms of the evolutionary basis of the no asshole rule and the tug of war that you see constantly in society between the numerous people prone to grab power and goodies for themselves and the numerous people that fight back to stop them (think of the current battle over executive pay).  Boehm's interpretation is that human hunter-gathers were actually quite similar to their fellow apes in that "they were prone to dominate each other," and thus "if these people had not so vigilantly worked against inequality, they would have soon turned hierarchical."  To put words in Boehm's mouth, people in these tribes aggressively enforced the no asshole rule as a deterrent against excessive dominance.

Boehm goes on to make a fascinating statement about we humans and our closest relatives that I think explains a lot about the behavior we see in so much of society: "We must ask, then, why a species so inclined to domination has been motivated to insist that power be shared so equally. And here, I believe, is the answer: Just as all four of the aforementioned species have strong propensity to domination and submission, so do they naturally resent being dominated."  In other words, we are both attracted to power (and to the powerful) but hate being pushed around and have a desire to parity (or more egalitarian relationships). 

I've been thinking about this a lot this morning because these tensions -- which clash the point of being irreconcilable-- help explain why there is so much inconsistency in human social behavior.  It also explains why being a leader requires walking a tightrope. On the one hand, people want a leader who they see as strong and in control (and leaders want to dominate their followers), but followers also want a leader who is unselfish, benevolent, and egalitarian.  Striking just the right balance here, day after day, isn't easy for any leader -- and as I wrote about in the HBR article, the dynamics of power make it even tougher because of the toxic tandem (people in power tend to become oblivious to their followers; while followers tend to watch their leaders actions very closely).  Yet to walk the tightrope, leaders need to be especially in tune with how their people react to every little move they make.

P.S. You can read Boehm's article here in Greater Good or if you really want to dig-in, check out his book Hierarchy in the Forest.

Starting a Movement, Learning to Lead: The Palo Alto Pedestrian Mall Over at Harvard Business Review

Julia Kirby wrote a great post over at the Harvard Business Review blog about the impressive progress that Amrita Mahale, James Thompson, Svetla Alexandrov, and Dave Hughes made over the past couple weeks in starting a movement and debate about whether to close the main drag in downtown Palo Alto and turn it into a pedestrian mall.  As I wrote last week, this has sparked a heated and serious debate in the community.  And a lot of press coverage.  Today, it was picked-up by Julia over at HBR, who focused on Dave Hughes (an Army Captain and Iraq veteran who is teaching at West Point next year), and what he learned about leadership from the experience. 

I have had the pleasure of teaching Dave in three different classes, and he is a delight (Also, talk about a no excuses guy -- he did make it to class when he spent the night before in the hospital, but asked to be excused on the day his wife had a baby!).  He also has wonderful leadership skills, as the article with Julia implies.  But I also want to make sure and emphasize that the other members of Team Wildfire, Amrita, James, and Svetla did a marvelous job as well -- although we also understand that Dave's experience in Iraq (he flew helicopters and coordinated hundreds of missions) definitely makes a great story.  If you are curious, check out Starting a Movement, Learning to Lead. Also, I think I learned a lot more about leadership from watching Dave in action than he ever learned from me and other Stanford faculty.  In any event, as always, anything that Julia writes is a delight to read.

I Hate People: A Book You Will Love

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Writing a business book that is funny and useful is REALLY tough to do.  The Peter Principle qualifies, so does Up the Organization, and so does my all time favorite business book on anything, Orbiting the Giant Hairball.  But most books that attempt this trick end-up as big flops. A brand new book is coming out this week that is so funny and useful that belongs in the esteemed company of such masterpieces.  I  Hate People: Kick Loose from the Overbearing and Underhanded Jerks at Work and Get What You Want Out of Your Job presents a compelling recipe for navigating through the kinds of people in the workplace that make us all miserable.  Authors Jonathan Littman and Marc Hershon call these jerks, losers, and time-suckers "The Ten Least Wanted." Examples include "Stop Sign," "Flim-Flam," "Bulldozer," and one of my least favorite "Smiley Face." The book is filled with all kinds of testsfor assessing how much you hate people, how many of these difficult people you must deal with, and more important, it is filled with great advice about how to survive and thrive among these creeps and losers.

They are also doing a host of funny and effective stuff to give readers a taste of the book, or to help people who read the book dig into the ideas more.  Check out their blog, I Hate People... But It's Nothing Personal, especially check out their silly conversation about how "Smiley Face" bosses express insincere passion as they screw-up people's lives. I also loved their post on Brits Have the Shortest Fuse.  And if you are really lucky, you can get an "I Hate People"  Do Not Disturb sign from them somehow.. I brought them home to my three teenagers on Friday, and now one hangs from each of their doors. 

Jonathan and Marc have written a great book, I believe, because they have different skills, but see the world in the same way. Jonathan is an experienced writer and author, notably joining Tom Kelley to write their IDEO-inspired books The Art of Innovation and Ten Faces of Innovation, and Jonathan has done a lot of serious journalism too,.  In fact, he has spent a great deal of time over the past couple years writing about steroid scandals in sports.   Marc is a wildly creative guy, perhaps most well-known for is work inventing the names of famous things such as the BlackBerry and Swiffer, but he also does and teaches stand-up comedy, produces cartoons for newspapers, and writes screenplays for movies, especially for the Hallmark channel... to name just some of the creative stuff he does.  The book is written in a consistent and persistently funny voice that reflects the quirks and skills of these two very talented people.

Finally, I Hate People has one of the funniest endorsement's I've ever seen. Comedian Dana Carvey says "Ironically, I hate the people who wrote this book."  I would also add that much as Arthur Bell's blurb suggest, this is the rare book that is clever and funny -- as you laugh along with Jonathan and Marc, you realize that their analysis and solutions are actually deeper and more useful than the piles of management books out their that take themselves far more seriously -- indeed, when I read it a few months back for the first time when they asked me to do a blurb, I was just blown away by how clever their ideas were for dealing with, coping with, and triumphing over the parade of creeps and idiots who populate too many workplaces.

Amazon just started shipping it today, you might want to grab a copy. 

Handshakes and Job Interviews:Study Shows it is Especially Helpful for Women

Photo_handshake All of us are taught from a young age about the importance of having a firm handshake and looking people in the eye.  There is plenty of folklore out there about how important it is too shake hands properly, and most of us notice when someone is awkward about it, does it weakly, or has sweaty palms. Nonetheless, I always am intrigued by how clever researchers can be about studying such mundane things, and how they often generate insights about things in life that we all take for granted.  A great example is a 2008 study of handshakes conducted by Greg Stewart and his colleagues at the University of Iowa, which was published in the Journal of Applied Psychology in 2008.  They had local managers and executives give mock interviews to 98 undergraduate (50 women, 48 men) job seekers, and then the interviewers give the students feedback about how they might improve their interviewing style, and also give the researchers a rating of how likely they were to hire the student. The interesting twist -- which makes this study strong from a methodological standpoint -- was that neither the student interviewees or corporate interviewers knew that Stewart and his colleagues were doing a study of handshakes.  The ratings of the students' handshakes were measured completely independent of the interviewer's ratings of whether or not they would hire the candidate -- although doing a handshake with the candidate was part of 45 minute or so mock interview.

The researchers somehow set things up so that, in the course of meeting the interview and going through the mock interviewer, the undergraduate shook hands with five different "raters" (and the job interviewer).  I can't describe this as well as the researchers, so let me show you the paragraph from page 1141:

"The raters shook hands while greeting each participant, either before or after the mock interview, so both interviewees and interviewers were unaware that handshakes were being evaluated. None of the handshake evaluators served as an interviewer. Two raters greeted and shook hands when a participant arrived for the mock interview. Participants were then introduced to a third rater, who shook hands. After the mock interview, a fourth rater greeted participants, shook hands, and introduced them to the fifth rater, who shook hands. Within 5–10 s of shaking hands, raters excused themselves from participants and completed an evaluation form. To avoid priming interviewers to pay undue attention to the handshake, we did not ask them to provide explicit assessments of the handshake."

Each of these five hand shakers was trained to rate the quality of the handshake on 1. completeness of grip; 2. vigor; 3. strength; 4. duration, and 5. eye contact during the handshake.  There was much agreement (inter-correlations between .68 and .85 among the raters).  The researchers then (after using introducing fairly extensive statistical controls) looked for the link between the handshakes and the interviewers ratings of whether they would hire the candidate (and remember that the interviewer didn't know it was a handshake study and had a lot of other kinds of interaction with the undergraduate). 

Despite all these other factors, the researchers found a significant (if modest) independent effect of handshake quality on whether the interviewer would be inclined to hire the student. To me, the most interesting finding pertains to women.  The researchers found that, on average, women had weaker handshakes than men. Probably because their are different expectations for men and women, women's weaker handshakes did not lead to weaker hiring recommendations (In fact, overall, the interviewers were more positively disposed to hire women than men).  BUT those women who had firmer and stronger handshakes, and used more complete grips, benefited more than men who had firm handshakes and complete grips -- the researchers suggest that this effect may have been seen because men are expected to have firm shakes, and because it is more unusual among women, those women with firm handshakes were more memorable.  In other words, having a weaker handshake didn't seem to hurt women, but having a stronger handshake seemed to help them.

I like this study because it confirms common sense and business lore, and adds an interesting twist -- if you are a woman, make sure you've got a great handshake. it may help you gain an advantage over both male and female candidates.

P.S. Go here to see the complete reference and abstract.

Free PDF of "How to Be a Good Boss in a Bad Economy" to 98 Readers

Jun09_Sutton_crop Harvard Business Online charges a pretty penny for articles and cases; indeed, although their prices annoy me at times, I also admire them because they produce and publish a lot of high-quality and original content, and actually get people and companies to pay for it -- something that many other organizations are now struggling to do.  The author in me likes that, even if the consumer in me does not.  One nice thing they do for authors is to create a link that allows us to give away 100 copies of a PDF version to anyone we want.  As I said earlier in the week, I want to give the copies to readers of Work Matters.  If you want a copy of "How to Be a Good Boss in a Bad Economy," please go here to download it:

http://custom.hbsp.com/b01/en/implicit/p.jhtml?login=SUTT052609S&pid=R0906E

Also, I would be grateful if you limited yourself to a single copy so that more people can get one. Finally, when these run out, you can read the opening of the article and buy the rest here; and if you want to see an interview with me about the article at the McKinsey site, check out Good Boss, Bad Times.

Good Boss, Bad Times: Video Interview at The McKinsey Quarterly

 I've written here about my new Harvard Business Review article on  "How to Be a Good Boss in a Bad Economy."  Right after I finished the article, I was lucky enough to be at conference where Rik Krikland had a camera crew. Rik runs the The McKinsey Quarterly and a bunch of other related stuff at McKinsey; as some of you may remember, Rik was the long time editor of Fortune magazine. Rik asked if I wanted to do an interview about something, and we both thought that the forthcoming HBR was most timely. So we did the interview, which they call Good Boss, Bad Times --you can see it for free if you follow the link.  The article contains more nuances than the interview, but Rik is such a good interviewer that he gently guided me to provide a pretty accurate compact summary of the ideas.

In addition to the interview, there was some interesting "inside baseball" with this interview as HBR and the McKinsey Quarterly in some ways compete for attention (although they do have different goals in many ways). But rather than getting weird and uncooperative, Rik and the new HBR editor Adi Ignatius were wonderfully cooperative about the whole thing.  They were colleagues at Time-Warner, as Adi was at Time magazine for 13 years, so that helped.  McKinsey waited to post the interview until the HBR article came-out -- and the HBR article links back to the interview (They are acting just like bloggers, kind of cool to see).  My thanks to everyone at The McKinsey Quarterly and Harvard Business Review for playing so well together, and for being so fun and inspiring to work with.

When Layoffs are Immoral: Randy Cohen in The New York Times

Sunday's Times had an essay by "ethicist" Randy Cohen that made a remarkably black and white argument about when it is and is not ethical to layoff employees.  I had a mixed reaction to the article.  On one hand, I agree that too many organizations use layoffs as a first or early resort and that there are too many times when senior executives slash employee jobs just to protect their own pay --and there is an argument from some research that companies that do layoffs at the first whiff of trouble are at a competitive disadvantage.  But I think that Mr. Cohen's arguments strike me as too moralistic and too naive at times.  This really bugged me:

"This is not to assert that Caterpillar can never downsize. Companies must be able to shrink as well as grow, to adjust to changing circumstances. (A restaurant with fewer customers needs fewer waiters.) But prudent staffing must be part of an ongoing strategy, not a panicky response to an economic downturn."

The economic collapse that led to layoffs at Caterpillar wasn't predicted most industry experts and economists, let alone by most corporate leaders.  I think that simply calling layoffs at Caterpillar a "panicky response" is sort of like criticizing people for a "panicky response" to Tsunami.  I am sure, in hindsight, that executives might have been better prepared, but I think Mr. Cohen does not show quite enough understanding of how hard it is to manage during times of harsh uncertainty. 

I was also a bit disturbed because,although I think that many companies do not show enough loyalty and humanity toward their workers, Mr. Cohen seemed to saying that any leader or company that did not first try practices short of layoffs was immoral:

"Before adopting the ethics of the overcrowded lifeboat, before tossing thousands of non-millionaires over the side, gentler — and more equitable — methods must be tried. Everyone’s hours might be reduced, diffusing the pain. Dividends to stockholders can be eliminated. Pay cuts can be instituted company-wide, with the deepest reserved for the highest paid (that is, those most able to endure them)."

That "must be tried" really bugs me.  In the case of Caterpillar, I wonder whether the workers, shareholders, and analysts would have agreed with the strategy of reducing hours or more severe pay cuts -- management works under many constraints that sometimes make such actions difficult.  Also, as Cohen notes, Caterpillar executives have taken some cuts (but perhaps not enough).

I spent much of my early career studying organizational death and decline, and am working on the topic again a bit, especially in my current HBR article.  When I first studied declining and dying organizations in Michigan in the early 1980s, I thought that layoffs were misanthropic and any company that did not spread the pain equally was immoral.  But as I have seen the difficult and complex set of constraints that executives face in organizations of all kinds and sizes, I have learned to avoid pointing the morality finger at those leaders who do layoffs -- there too many times when it puts the remaining business at risk or when because of immovable constraints (such as union contracts, work rules, or the nature of the work) cost-cutting short of layoffs is not feasible.  There are also other times when, to save the company, or at least a lot more jobs, a company has too many workers with the wrong skills, and although perhaps they should have realized it sooner, they get in a position where a restructuring is needed to change the composition of the workforce, and layoffs are the only viable path. There are even times when paying no dividend may end-up hurting the stock so badly that layoffs are a better path for the common good over the long haul. 

Layoffs do massive damage to people, I am not defending them as humane acts, but there are too many times when they are the lesser evil.  And if they are the best choice NOW because of PAST managerial incompetence, that is horrible, but life does not have a rewind feature.

I do agree with Mr. Cohen that some CEO's out there are not taking there fair share of the hit, although even then I worry that if we take the finger-pointing too far here that executives won't have the right incentives for managing organizations well on the both the way up and on the way down the economic cycle -- and everyone will suffer as a result. 

Finally, perhaps it is my weird bias in life, but when people claim to be more ethical than others, it always makes me squirm because so often they end-up taking the same --or worse --actions than those they demonize.  As my father-in-law likes to say, "when people talk about ethics, I hide the good silverware."  I agree with many of Mr. Cohen's points, but I guess his moralistic tone bothers me above all else. Too many ethical and unselfish executives I know who have done layoffs have suffered mightily as they tried to balance efforts to keep their companies healthy -- or at least alive -- and to save as many jobs as possible in the wake of the current awful and largely unexpected mess.  Mr. Cohen is mighty quick to trumpet his own moral superiority when discussing executives who did not plan for these extremes or who believe that --for the good of the whole -- layoffs rather than spreading the pain more evenly are the best strategy. 

I wonder, if he walked a mile in their shoes, would he be as ethical or as competent?   Morality, like management, is something that is a lot easier to talk about than to get right every time given the messiness and uncertainty of the world as it exists (rather than the world we wish it would be).

HBR Online Jumps on the Baboon Bandwagon

I wrote a post last week called "Of Baboons and Bosses" that described the source supporting my assertion that, in baboon troops, the other members of the troop glance at the alpha male two or three times a minute.  I talk about this in my new Harvard Business Review article on "How to Be a Good Boss in a Bad Economy" to help make the point that, when you are a boss, your people watch your moves very closely, especially when fear is in the air.

Julia Kirby over at Harvard Business Review online has added a lovely post on the baboon angle over at the editors blog, called Beware the Baboon Boss. I like Julia's opening:

If your workplace is like many these days, all eyes are on the boss. The numbers aren't good, the senior team is huddling, and change is in the air. Everyone studies their supervisor's every move and utterance for clues to the danger ahead.

It turns out this isn't just a rational response to uncertainty; it's in our evolutionary biology.

Julia edited this and many of my past HBR articles, and perhaps more than anyone else, is responsible for the sequence of events that led me to write The No Asshole Rule, as she wrote me about five years ago to ask if I had an ideas for their annual breakthrough ideas. I said I had an idea, but they wouldn't publish it because it involved publishing a seven-word expletive that would not be acceptable in a respectable publication like HBR.  I also added that it probably was not a breakthrough idea.  Julia seemed undeterred and, although the essay was called "More Trouble Than They Are Worth," it contained the "A word' at least seven times.   The essay was published and it unleashed a deluge of responses -- notably hundreds of emails -- that led me to realize that the damage done by assholes in the workplace was something that people cared about a lot, and that touched many lives.  If Julia had not supported the idea, and urged me to send her text, the book never would have happened.

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